Challenges for partners

So do you ever just get tired of ALWAYS having every conversation end up being about THIER transition??? It's hard right? These people we love so much never seem to realize that WE transitioned too! The very minute three words were said: "I am Transgender". They changed, we changed, and our world changed. All of this happened whether we stayed with them or left. I remember when I heard those words from my partner. At the same time that I heard a resounding WTF in my mind a wave of understanding flowed through me. If any of you have seen "The Danish Girl" I am sure you heard words that you have said to your partners. I remember when I watched that movie I had such a feeling of finally there is a movie about us!!