Monday, February 06, 2006

Coming Out

This coming out thing is so delicate. We have to be so afraid of who we come out to. How they will take it, how they will view us and our TS's.

I never thought of it this way..but the coming out applies to us as well as our TS's. I remember when my TS came out to me that I was plainly aware of thinking..."this is not supposed to be happening to me. It's one thing for my friends to be TS, or for YOU to be TS, but not my house, not my husband."

So when the rubber meets the road, I had to put my money where my mouth is..not to double up my cliches..but I had to own the hypocracy of that. I had to own my hypocracy. To be an effective source of comfort and support for my TS I had to own it and get past it.

So far so good!